Posts Tagged ‘chastity’


I am an ass when I cum.

March 11, 2012

We all practice chastity a little (or  a lot) different.  That is one of the wonderful things about chastity, you mold it and take from it what works best for you.   I know this, I embrace this, yet from time to time I still let comments and ideas of other people get under my skin.    That was the case this weekend, and it isn’t something that my obsessive brain is letting go anytime soon. Read the rest of this entry ?


Missing Chastity

February 6, 2012

Missing Chastity.  Never thought I would be the one saying that.   Things have taken a different focus at the Jnuts/Belle household the last few months, and I am not sure how I feel about it.  We have been focusing on toy reviews, which has actually been a ton of fun for me.  Writing the reviews and organzing the other reviewers and their posts have given me something to focus on other than being Mommy to 2 very busy and messy toddlers.  Jnuts has been having at least an orgasm a week, mostly because of a toy that needs reviewed.   He always asks if he allowed, but it isn’t the same.  He also isn’t locked. Read the rest of this entry ?



January 25, 2012

Jnuts and I have practicing MC in one form or another for just over a year and a half.  During that time, I have run the emotional spectrum from totally freaked out to loving it.   Lately I seem to have settled somewhere in the middle. I do not feel the stress or pressure of key holding, and I also don’t feel the need to make a big deal about it. Read the rest of this entry ?


Almost a Mistress?

January 12, 2012

Belle here, yes I do still exist.  Between 2 toddlers, Christmas, and drama from a past life creeping in I haven’t had much time on the computer. Jnuts was out of his device for well over the intended 2 week period due to my life being crazy.   I didn’t have the time to invest in male chastity, and that is something that I have been trying to pay more attention to.   Chastity for us does not work if there is no play on my part. He is back in chastity, just not in his device.   That will be changing very, very soon. I am in charge, and what I say goes. Read the rest of this entry ?


An early Christmas present

December 14, 2011

So, what do you get the man who has everything? Well everything except the power to control his own orgasms that is. A break from male chastity until the day after Christmas. Yep, he has 11 days all to himself. I have put the device away, and it will not return until Dec 26. He is free to initiate sex, although I may not always say yes, and free to masturbate at will. He can cum as many times as his little heart (or cock) desires with no fear of repercussion. Read the rest of this entry ?


Nine Minutes of Uncertainty.

December 13, 2011

I was sick for a few days and Belle is now. Last night was interesting to say the least…

I was giving Belle a backrub. Less than a week in and I was horny as hell. I told Belle as much.  A week ago she told me that we would play a lot more this cycle. Not her fault at all but still difficult.  Belle sympathized and told me we could take a break.  She told me I could take my device off.  Read the rest of this entry ?


Not so crazy after all….

November 17, 2011

Well, in terms of the drop off I feel after an extreme play session that is. I recently read Jay Wiseman’s “SM 101” book for our review site. 90% of the book was not for me, it dealt with others in the SM community who were looking to enter into it with no set partner. However one thing did jump out at me and make me reread a section, what he referred to as “Top Drop.” This is term was used to define the feeling that the Top, or Domme, feels the day or two after a session.

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