Posts Tagged ‘Keyholder’


An early Christmas present

December 14, 2011

So, what do you get the man who has everything? Well everything except the power to control his own orgasms that is. A break from male chastity until the day after Christmas. Yep, he has 11 days all to himself. I have put the device away, and it will not return until Dec 26. He is free to initiate sex, although I may not always say yes, and free to masturbate at will. He can cum as many times as his little heart (or cock) desires with no fear of repercussion. Read the rest of this entry ?



November 13, 2011

Last night kicked major ass!  We have had a roll of bondage tape from Babeland sitting in a box on the counter for a couple of weeks.  Not particularly excited about it, we needed to get it reviewed so it was decided that last night was the night.

We spread a blanket out on the living room floor and I was told to remove my clothes.  I asked Belle if she was going to unlock me and she said she would.  Still locked but naked, I got down on the blanket as I was told.  My wrists were secured together with the tape and the games began. Read the rest of this entry ?


A quick note…

October 5, 2011

To my Wonderful husband. Things with 2 toddlers have been insane the last few weeks. I just want to make sure you and our readers know how much I value you and the gift you have given me.

I love you more everyday. Thank you for letting me be your keyholder.



The key to our marriage

September 22, 2011

There was some discussion on a male chastity message board regarding holding a key for a friend. This got me thinking about what it means to hold a key. Ask 30 keyholders, you will get 30 different answers. Sure, for the most part they will be along the same lines- power, control over orgasms, and some version of respect. It is dependent on your individual relationship with the chaste and how you see yourself progressing.

Regular readers of our blog will know that Jnuts proposed male chastity to me. I was as vanilla as they come, at the time I did not even own a vibrator. I had owned them in the past, but they just didn’t do anything for me. I had no sex drive due to having 2 very small children, and him giving me the key (or symbolic key) was a way to balance our relationship and show me that he respected my boundaries. Taking that power was not an easy decision for me. I struggled with being able to be firm yet fair, and still do. It is not about degradation, submission, or me being better than him in any way. It is about me meeting my husbands needs in a rather unorthodox way, and finally allowing myself reap the benefits. Read the rest of this entry ?



September 18, 2011

We had a fight. I guess it was more than a fight really. It wasn’t sexual in nature so I won’t go into details but Belle did something that was a problem in our past and she swore she wouldn’t do again. This really hurt my trust in her.

Immediately I felt disgust at the thought of wearing my device so I took it off. Read the rest of this entry ?


A woman’s prerogative

September 7, 2011

We have all heard the saying “it’s a woman’s prerogative to change her mind”. That is exactly what I did.

If you are a follower of our blog, you will know that about 2 weeks ago I proposed the idea of a dice game to Jnuts. It was very indepth, and involved several steps and the possibility of a very long lock-up. He seemed very excited about the idea, and was eager to roll the dice to start the cycle. I was excited because he was excited. I thought I was ready for the control to be taken away from me, as in the past I have had issues with deciding when was “time” to unlock. Jnuts would ask due to extreme horniness, and I felt bad saying no, so I would go along with it. This often led to regret on his part, as he was “topping from the bottom”. Enter the dice game. Seemed a win-win for us at this stage. Read the rest of this entry ?


Re-inventing Belle

January 23, 2011

As Jnuts noted in the previous blog, I am going to try to meet him half way in his desire to dabble in a D/S relationship.  Those of you who have read some of earlier blogs will understand why this is a difficult thing for me.  I struggle with the power that MC gives me, so being the Domme in our relationship is a huge step.    I used my Fetlife profile to establish a persona for Belle……

I am Belle, the alter ego of a very vanilla, white collar professional turned SAHM. She is uncomfortable addressing some of her husbands more kinky desires, and that is where I step in. She was struggling with his desire to be locked in chastity and denied. She felt bad telling him no and teasing then denying. I do not. I don’t have the hang ups of past relationships that messed with her head. He wants smacked around a little while wearing a dog collar? I am game. He wants pissed on while I shower? Sure, won’t hurt me at all. It will be about me when I want it to be, not when she thinks it should be. I am not into receiving pain, but I can and will dish it out. He always said he wanted her to be the bitch she was at work in the bedroom. Well I am here now. Let’s hope he realized what he was wishing for.

Jnuts has not met Belle yet, but he has received several messages from her, and will be meeting her soon.