Posts Tagged ‘male chastity’


I am an ass when I cum.

March 11, 2012

We all practice chastity a little (or  a lot) different.  That is one of the wonderful things about chastity, you mold it and take from it what works best for you.   I know this, I embrace this, yet from time to time I still let comments and ideas of other people get under my skin.    That was the case this weekend, and it isn’t something that my obsessive brain is letting go anytime soon. Read the rest of this entry ?


A quick note

February 21, 2012

Just wanted to stop in and say that everything is going, well normal.   As normal as it ever goes for us that is.   Jnuts is crazy busy at work, which leaves little time for random text messages and the such.  I know he is in some pretty important meetings, and don’t want to distract him with his phone going off.   (He has to keep it with him.)  Life with 2 toddlers takes over when he does get home, but we are plugging along.   He had a pretty intense ruined orgasm over the weekend, but I could not do it justice so I will let him tell the story if he gets a chance.      He is now unlocked again after wearing it all last week, but I may lock him back up in a few days.   Unlocked, not free to orgasm.  In our household those are 2 totally different things.



Missing Chastity

February 6, 2012

Missing Chastity.  Never thought I would be the one saying that.   Things have taken a different focus at the Jnuts/Belle household the last few months, and I am not sure how I feel about it.  We have been focusing on toy reviews, which has actually been a ton of fun for me.  Writing the reviews and organzing the other reviewers and their posts have given me something to focus on other than being Mommy to 2 very busy and messy toddlers.  Jnuts has been having at least an orgasm a week, mostly because of a toy that needs reviewed.   He always asks if he allowed, but it isn’t the same.  He also isn’t locked. Read the rest of this entry ?


Almost a Mistress?

January 12, 2012

Belle here, yes I do still exist.  Between 2 toddlers, Christmas, and drama from a past life creeping in I haven’t had much time on the computer. Jnuts was out of his device for well over the intended 2 week period due to my life being crazy.   I didn’t have the time to invest in male chastity, and that is something that I have been trying to pay more attention to.   Chastity for us does not work if there is no play on my part. He is back in chastity, just not in his device.   That will be changing very, very soon. I am in charge, and what I say goes. Read the rest of this entry ?


An early Christmas present

December 14, 2011

So, what do you get the man who has everything? Well everything except the power to control his own orgasms that is. A break from male chastity until the day after Christmas. Yep, he has 11 days all to himself. I have put the device away, and it will not return until Dec 26. He is free to initiate sex, although I may not always say yes, and free to masturbate at will. He can cum as many times as his little heart (or cock) desires with no fear of repercussion. Read the rest of this entry ?


Not so crazy after all….

November 17, 2011

Well, in terms of the drop off I feel after an extreme play session that is. I recently read Jay Wiseman’s “SM 101” book for our review site. 90% of the book was not for me, it dealt with others in the SM community who were looking to enter into it with no set partner. However one thing did jump out at me and make me reread a section, what he referred to as “Top Drop.” This is term was used to define the feeling that the Top, or Domme, feels the day or two after a session.

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Craving cum.

October 5, 2011

I came to write a blog and just now noticed the one my wife wrote last night.  How sweet.  🙂

So yes, things have been hectic.  No time for play yet this week.  Frustrating?  Yes.  Am I dealing?  Yes.  No outbursts.

I’m really craving cum.  A lot more than usual.  It is such a weird craving.  I don’t know why I have it, I really don’t.  I would love nothing more right now than to have my legs suspended over my head and to have an orgasm ruined right into my mouth.  Or have Belle milk me into a shot glass and slowly pour it into my mouth.

I’m not sure if I blogged about it, but for a few weeks before we started back into chastity, Belle was letting me masturbate as often as I wanted.  The only catch was that all cum was deposited into a specimen cup, that was kept in the freezer.  Filling that cup up made things pretty hot.  I found myself jerking off when I wasn’t really in the mood, just to see the amount increase.  It was a bit scary in a way, knowing I would have to swallow it all some day.  It was exciting though.  I probably got 15 or 20 loads in there.  It was about 1/3 of the way full.

Belle was still on the pill, and when it came down to it, she decided that she wasn’t really interested in the whole idea.  We threw it away.  Wish we had it now.  I’m sure it would have been past the expiration date by now, but having a cup with that much cum now would be such a turn on.  I don’t know if her thoughts on it have changed yet, but hopefully they do some day.  It sucks that I don’t get to cum very often.  It would take a long time to get anywhere near that much now.

So many possibilities though.  Would she make me just drink it straight?  Would she fill herself with it and give me one hell of a creampie?  Make me lick it off her body?  Suck it off a dildo?  No idea.  What would be the biggest mind fuck?  Probably making me get naked except for my cage.  Giving me no stimulation at all and just making me drink it straight from the cup.  Then telling me goodnight.

Anywho…probably no play tonight.  17 days in.  No release at all.  I think I’ve been locked up for a week and a half straight.  I would have to go back and check the blog to be sure.  Oh well.